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		<title>Confidence &amp; Self Esteem: an essential in business success: Nov 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 16:06:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Glynis</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A two-factor definition of confidence:
•	A belief that we can think effectively, and cope successfully.
•	A belief that we are worthy of happiness - that we have a right to be successful and happy, and deserve to achieve what we need, want or value.
We also know that:
•	Self confidence is destiny - a high or low self confidence is a self fulfilling prophecy.
•	Self confidence is an immune system of the mind.
•	Self confidence is one of the best predictors of personal happiness, life-wide, for all people.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://c-psolutions-multiculturalsales.eventbrite.com/" target="_blank"><strong> </strong></a><a href="http://confidence-c-psolutions.eventbrite.com/" target="_blank"><strong>Sign up for this event.</strong></a></strong></p>
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<p><strong><strong>Dates: </strong></strong>Early November, 2010</p>
<p><strong><strong>Location</strong>: </strong>The Centre Club,<br />
123 South Westshore Blvd, Tampa, Florida 33609.</p>
<p><strong>On-line credit-card registration below.</strong> Checks accepted.<span id="more-897"></span></p>
<p><strong>Half day. </strong>Includes breakfast and mid-morning refreshments and snacks in luxury surroundings. Free parking. Participants may stay for Centre Club buffet lunch ($15). (Please notify CPS, in advance, about lunch requests if possible, or book on-line.)</p>
<p><strong>Start.</strong> Registration 8.15. Course starts 8.30 a.m. <strong>End.</strong> 12.30. p.m.<img title="More..." src="http://c-psolutions.com/wp-includes/js/tinymce/plugins/wordpress/img/trans.gif" alt="" /></p>
<p><strong>Cost</strong>: $125  Discount: $15 for early registration (5 business days). Small class size owing to topic.</p>
<p><a href="http://c-psolutions.com/2009/09/workshop-contact-terms-conditions/" target="_blank">Contact details, terms and conditions.</a></p>
<p><strong>Suitable for:</strong> Business people, especially executives, sales professionals, managers, and those who have recently been promoted in corporate environments. Mid-career employment-changers, entrepreneurs and fast-tracked high performers find this workshop especially beneficial.</p>
<p><strong>Participants will be able to:</strong></p>
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<li>Identify how self esteem and confidence affect business situations, actions and results.</li>
<li>Solidify this knowledge with a (brief) review of mainstream research.</li>
<li>Prepare for new insights: differentiate between action-reaction and action-thought-reaction.</li>
<li>Build a structured understanding of how participants achieved their  current levels of confidence. (The workshop provides a professional  environment, with an experienced facilitator, and is therefore suitable  for co-workers to attend together.)</li>
<li>Explore six techniques that deliver an on-going growth of real, lasting self-esteem and confidence.</li>
<li>Review cycles of challenges and growth. Identify examples of these  in participants’ lives, along with their current phase of the cycle.</li>
<li>Predict where challenges lie, and foresee what specific challenges may affect sustainable results from the workshop.</li>
<li>Plan to implement up to five specific tactics or strategies to  ensure that the growth of confidence and self esteem develops sustained  and sustainable momentum.</li>
<li>Map a personalized action plan, including contingency plans, for the journey forwards.</li>
<p><div id="attachment_907" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 154px"><a href="http://c-psolutions.hosting.sourcetoad.info/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Sasol-logo-full-colour-jpg.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-907" title="Sasol logo full colour jpg" src="http://c-psolutions.hosting.sourcetoad.info/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Sasol-logo-full-colour-jpg-300x128.jpg" alt="" width="144" height="61" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Previous Client: Sasol</p></div></ul>
<p><strong>Why CPS’s interactive, accelerated workshop approach? </strong>No one learns from &#8220;talk and chalk&#8221; or &#8220;Death by PowerPoint.&#8221;  Learning is interactive and collaborative, fun and engaging&#8230; or it  doesn&#8217;t happen.</p>
<p><strong>Custom versions of the program are available.</strong> In a  custom  version, CPS will visit your company, free of charge, and assess  your  challenges. The workshop will be customized around your people&#8217;s specific needs and requirements. CPS does the paperwork for Workforce funding if desired.</p>
<div id="attachment_909" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 131px"><a href="http://c-psolutions.hosting.sourcetoad.info/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/coca_cola_large.gif"><img class="size-full wp-image-909" title="coca_cola_large" src="http://c-psolutions.hosting.sourcetoad.info/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/coca_cola_large.gif" alt="" width="121" height="42" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Previous Client: Coca Cola</p></div>
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		<title>Retaining valuable “women who don’t ask”</title>
		<link>http://www.c-psolutions.com/2008/04/retaining-valuable-%e2%80%9cwomen-who-don%e2%80%99t-ask%e2%80%9d/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Apr 2008 23:03:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Glynis</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Diversity & Culture]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assertiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Boomers]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Research shows that even young, highly-educated and assertive women do not ask for what they want, or know how to maneuver their way through systems that penalize them for asking. The cost, to both women and organizations, is high. Research proves that when women do ask for what they want, they do not do so [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Research shows that even young, highly-educated and assertive women do not ask for what they want, or know how to maneuver their way through systems that penalize them for asking.</p>
<p>The cost, to both women and organizations, is high.</p>
<p>Research proves that when women do ask for what they want, they do not do so as clearly, quickly or as often as men do. GenX and GenY women are following in the footsteps of their Boomer and Traditional predecessors in this pattern.</p>
<p>Women also tend to think that what is offered (“what is on the table”) is all that is available. Men draw on their socialization (which includes things like being taught how to slip the Maitre d’ a few bucks for a better table) and assume that their wants and needs might be met if they speak up, irrespective of what seems to be on offer.</p>
<p>Organizations suffer. Their valuable women work and wait for rewards or options, then one day, *poof*! They’re working for your competitor or running their own small business, and you’re saying “why didn’t she TELL me she wanted that position, the same salary as John, that title, a new computer screen, a more flexible schedule, a space heater? It would have cost so little … a tiny fraction of what this is costing us now!”<br />
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Linda Babcock, Co-author of “Women Don’t Ask”, admits that those who ask, often get. She describes how she, herself, gave more resources and opportunities to men in her department, while she was researching the way women are socialized to wait for rewards, and why women don’t imagine possibilities outside The System. She did this because men asked.</p>
<p><strong>Great read: “</strong>Women Don’t Ask” (by Linda Babcock and Sara Laschever) has some great strategies for managing men and women who are valuable assets to your organization, but do not ask clearly for what they want. It’s also a must-read for working women or parents of daughters.</p>
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